My brother and I used to fight like cats and dogs. Now, we share the same oddball sense of humor and occasionally fight like cats and dogs.
What did Tolstoy say at the beginning of Anna Karenina? Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
Only he knows our particular dysfunction. And how we all survived it, to live and dance another day. In a way, I’m glad it was me who got MS and not him. I don’t think I could stand to see him go through this.